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The best colours to wear with grey hair

Going grey changes the contrast in your face, not the undertone underneath it. That one distinction explains almost everything about what suddenly works and what suddenly does not.

For most of your life your hair was the darkest thing in your face, and colours had to hold their own against it. Grey and silver hair is light and cool, which narrows the gap between your hair and your skin. The palette that suited you still suits you — your skin has not changed — but the strongest members of it now shout over a face that has less depth to answer them.

Two things follow, and they are the whole of the advice. Soften the loudest shades by a notch, and stop using whatever colour your hair now is as a clothing colour near your face.

Shades that suit most grey hair

Cool, gentle and clear enough to give the hair something to stand against. These are the summer palette's softest members, and they are where to start if you are not sure of your season.

  • Powder Blue#8FB3D1
  • Soft Rose#D4939F
  • Lavender#A294C4
  • Dusty Pink#C98F9C
  • Sage Green#8FA392
  • Slate Blue#6F8FB5

If your colouring is strong rather than soft

Some people keep a marked contrast between dark eyes, deep skin and white hair. That colouring can carry the winter palette at full strength, and softening it would be the mistake.

  • True Red#C5102C
  • Royal Blue#1F4FA3
  • Emerald#0F7A55
  • Fuchsia#C2247D
  • Sapphire#15487D
  • Icy Pink#F0CDD8

The two mistakes

  1. Wearing your own hair colour

    A grey jumper at the same depth as grey hair makes the two read as one continuous thing, and the face in the middle of it disappears. Keep clothing greys either clearly darker — charcoal, slate — or clearly lighter, and let the hair be the only silver in the picture.

  2. Keeping the black you always wore

    Black under white hair is the widest contrast available, and it tends to pull the shadows in your face downwards. Navy and charcoal read as smart in exactly the same way without the drop, which is why they are the usual swap once hair lightens.

A third habit is worth naming, though it is less of a mistake than a missed opportunity: beige and other colours that sit close to skin tone. With less depth in the hair, a near-skin colour leaves nothing anywhere in the picture for the eye to settle on.

Which palette is actually yours

Grey hair does not put everyone in the same group. Your undertone decides the palette, and greying only decides how strong a version of it to wear. The free colour report reads your skin rather than your hair, which is exactly what you want here — it takes about a minute and asks for nothing.

Find your palette

Questions about grey hair and colour

Does grey hair change the colours that suit me?

It changes the contrast, not the undertone. Your skin leans the same way it always did, so the colour family that suited you still suits you. What changes is strength: hair that has lost its depth sits closer to your skin, and a shade that used to look striking can now look louder than the face it is next to.

Should I avoid grey clothing with grey hair?

Only the grey that matches your hair. A cool mid-grey jumper under silver hair blends the two together and flattens both. A charcoal or a soft blue-grey sits at a different depth and does the opposite, giving the hair something to stand against.

Can I still wear warm colours?

If your skin is warm, yes. Silver hair with warm skin is common and it is not a contradiction — take the softer warm shades, camel and warm beige over mustard and rust, so the warmth does not overpower hair that no longer has any depth to answer it.

Why does black feel harder than it used to?

Black is the deepest thing you can put next to your face, and grey hair is one of the lightest. The gap between them is wider than it was, so black now casts a shadow that the hair cannot balance. Charcoal, navy and deep grey-blue do the same job with less of a drop.

What is the single easiest change to make?

Swap the shirt nearest your face. One soft white or powder blue top in place of a cream or mustard one changes more than a new coat, because that is where light reflects up into your skin.